Saturday 28 December 2019

Photo diary: weeks 51 & 52, project 365

Welcome to the last photo diary post of the year! I can't quite believe where the year has gone. It was a tough year, with lots of ups and downs. I am quite deflated by the end of the year, and hoping the next year will be better (optimistic much?!).
I didn't have a chance to post a weekly post last weekend, as my guys were going to Italy, and I had a lot of things to finish before they left, so here is a combined lot of photos for two weeks.

On Sunday the 15th we felt like the characters of Frozen. Our boiler got broken the day before, and the house was very cold. This is Eddie's selfie on my iphone.

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After the school run in the morning I walked towards the flood fields to check out the levels of the Windrush river. It wasn't an extensive flood, but I still couldn't get through, and had to make a detour to get back home.

floods in Oxfordshire, Chez Maximka

Waiting outside Eddie's school for the gates to open, I spotted this pale pansy. Really not the right season for these flowers at all.

winter flowers, Chez Maximka

A quick coffee in the morning at the Blue Boar before rushing into the shops to find the last minute gifts for my family.

pubs of Oxfordshire, Chez Maximka

It was the last day of school for Eddie, and he had a Nativity service at the church with his school. He was a donkey. He didn't have any words, and wasn't even allowed to say Hee Haw. I thought he looked very cute in his donkey costume. I told him that the donkey was very important, as without him Mary and Joseph wouldn't have reached Bethlehem, and Jesus would have been born on the road. The story might have been completely different...

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The next day Eddie went to Oxford to see a dentist, and then they stopped at my husband's college. Here is Eddie doing an "installation piece" under the table (photo courtesy of my husband).

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I finally put the Christmas wreath on the door. I bought it at the local market.

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On Sunday lucky Eddie had a chance to jump on the flight simulator outside the cinema, which for the festive weekend was free. He was ecstatic. It must be such a wonderful feeling to soar up.

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Early on Monday morning I hugged my boy and cried, as they were leaving for the airport. I was anxious about their trip and about how I would cope with Sasha for five days on my own.
It's the first time in Eddie's life that we spent so many days apart.
I knew it would be hard, but didn't expect it to be so hard. I'm not fond of drama, but I was truly in a bad place.
It didn't help that Sash's behaviour was extremely challenging.
Since Eddie was leaving before Christmas, he opened his gifts from me earlier. He loves Funko Pop toys, and I got him two new ones to add to his collection - Captain America and Spidey from Endgame. They are now watching us from the bookshelf.

Endgame Funko Pop, shelfie, Chez Maximka

The next day I talked to Eddie on Whatssap, and told him that I was watching Kung Fu Panda 3. He said he wished he watched it with me, so I snapped a shot from the film and sent it to him.
It reminded us how we saw it in the cinema for the first time. Eddie's friend who's a year younger, found it too scary and his Mum had to take him home half-way through the film.
I love the Kung Fu Panda series. The music by Zimmerman is excellent.

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Eddie had a good time though. His grandparents loved having him there, and he was spoilt rotten. That was my consolation, knowing that he enjoyed his break. They sent me daily photos of their activities, including zorbing.

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I have been thinking of which books to choose as my top 10 reads of the year. It's a mix of adult and YA/children's fiction. Hoping to finish the blog post by the end of the year.

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I finished reading Wakenhurst by Michelle Paver only this week, and had to re-think my top ten list, as I felt I really had to include it. It has all the elements which I enjoy in books: a suspense, a secluded manor house, a thrill of supernatural, a strong female protagonist. It also shows how bleak a woman's lot is in the patriarchal society. Superb storytelling.

best books of 2019, Chez Maximka, gothic thriller

My guys came back home at almost midnight, pretty exhausted after a late evening flight. We went straight to bed.
This morning I looked at the gifts they brought home, including this black cardigan, a gift from my mother-in-law. I asked Eddie to take a photo of me, when we were in the café.
He took several pictures, and in all of them I look so tired. There's a Russian expression krashe v grob kladut, which means someone would look prettier in the coffin.
This Christmas holiday was very tough. I didn't sleep much, and the days were long and stressful. On the plus side, I read several books and watched some old Poirot films.
From the new TV, I only managed to see Call the Midwife, but had to miss The Small Hand with Douglas Henshall.


Hope you had a lovely Christmas.



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24 comments:

  1. I'm so glad you are all back together - I can only imagine how tough that must have been to get through, never knowing how Sash would react and having to deal with it all by yourself, but you made it ! Time for you to have a rest now - hopefully your husband will be around to take over for a while. Love your Christmas wreath and I hope your heating is all fixed now - ours went wrong for a few days a couple of weeks ago and it was soooo cold ! Hugs, Cheryl xx

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    1. Thank you, Cheryl, I'm so glad to have them back, we had a nice day today, going out. Sash looked very happy and jolly. He missed going out with his father.
      The heating was fixed after 2 days, thanks goodness.

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  2. Hope your boiler was sorted quickly, shame Eddie wasn't even allowed to say hee awe. That wreath is lovely. Glad Eddie had a nice trip away, I know it was hard for you. What a peculiar Russian saying, but if I may say you look very nice in the photo

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    1. Thank you, Suzanne, the boiler was fixed after a couple of days, but it wasn't a pleasant weekend, with no heating or hot water. The expression relates to the washed-out look, I think.

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  3. Sorry to hear you had such a tough Christmas. It must have been so tough without Eddie and a relief to have them home! Eddie's bookshelf looks very familiar - a lot of our old favourites on there! I've been thinking about my favourite books of the year too. I limit myself to a top five, but I read slightly less than you. Would be easier to come up with a top 10!

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    1. Thank you, Sarah! I'd love to see what your top reads of the year are. If you do the post, please tag me so that I don't miss it.

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  4. I don't think I should laugh at the "krashe v grob kladut", but it sounds very much like a saying from Romania. My mother used to tell me to wear lipstick so I don't look like something between a scarecrow and a witch (there isn't an English equivalent). It did work though, as I'm wearing lipstick even if I go out with the dog or to take the bin out.

    I'm sure is a comfort for you to know that Eddie had such a lovely time in Italy. I hope you can relax and recover after these difficult days alone with Sasha. Lots of hugs. xx

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    1. Don't laugh, Anca, don't laugh. :) You got it right though.
      Eddie had a good time in Italy, and I'm happy for him to have a chance to see his grandparents.

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  5. Fab photos!
    I love Eddie's donkey costume! How cute.
    So sorry you had a rough time over Christmas with Eddie being away :(
    Wishing you all the best for 2020. I hope it is a better year for you. x

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    1. Thank you, Kim! I hope 2020 is kind to us all. And yes, I think Eddie makes a super cute donkey. :)

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  6. Sorry you guys were apart for Christmas, but sounds like Eddie was able to enjoy his time away. Love the cardigan. Eddie's bookshelves are very neat and organised. N's are just rammed on all over the place and piled up! We should really get them a bit more orderly.

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    1. Thank you, Emma, Eddie's shelf is quite organised, but mine are a total chaos.

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  7. so sorry to read you had such a tough time, Eddie not being there would be difficult for Sasha as well, and hard work as Eddie not there to help. Nice you got to connect with him and that he had such a great time. Would have been nice for Eddie to go away for a week and have no responsibilities, though I am sure as he has grown up with it it is his normal.
    Very true on the donkey front.
    Yes we have buds and flowers on trees and bushes here as well.

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    1. Thank you, Elaine, it is true, the absence of Eddie affects Sasha as well, as it is against what he perceives as a norm, and he found it hard to accept it. And yes, for Eddie the situation is pretty much normal, he knows that everything basically revolves around his brother's needs and routines.

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  8. Yep, this has been a quick year with its ups and downs. Eddie is totally explaining what winter is doing to me too. Wow, what an installation piece!The Funko Pop toys look great! So sad to have your son leave before Christmas. I hope he enjoys.
    You look lovely, although that's a funny expression.
    Merry Christmas and a happy new year!

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    1. Thank you, Andale! Eddie had a good time in Italy, and says that he misses his grandparents, who enjoyed his company so much.
      Happy new year to you too!

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  9. Glad everyone is home and safe, it looks like Eddie had lots of fun. Boilers always seem to breakdown in winter (ours did in the first winter in our home) Happy new year! #project365

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    1. Thank you, Laura, Eddie enjoyed his break in Italy very much. Happy new year to you too!

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  10. So glad Eddie and his Dad are back safe with you. I've been thinking of you a lot over the holidays. Hope you get some sort of break now as you must be exhausted. We love Kung Fu Panda too #365

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    1. Thank you, Mary, holidays are already a distant memory, thanks goodness. Ku Fu Panda is very clever, and the music is marvellous.

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  11. So glad Eddie and his Dad are back safely with you. It must have been such a difficult time. I hope you got some time to relax over the holidays. Happy new year xx

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    1. Thank you, Susan, it wasn't a relaxing holiday as such, but I did manage to read a few good books.

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  12. I am sorry Christmas was tough for you, glad they came back safe. He looks very cute in his Donkey costume and the black cardigan looks very nice too. Happy New Year

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    1. Thank you and a happy new year to you too! I've only worn the cardigan once, but will wear it more, when the weather is warmer and I don't need a coat.

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