Sunday 22 March 2020

Photo diary: week 12, project 366

Last week started with Marvel and finished with Marvel. I think we're trying to escape into the world of Superheroes and the Enhanced, maybe subconsciously hoping someone will save the humans?!

Reading yesterday's Weekend, I nodded in agreement with Tim Dowling's words: "Social distancing? This comes naturally to me. I never go anywhere, and I wash my hands a lot. Social distancing is a guiding principle of my existence".
I'm not saying it as a jest, but totally ditto. I have a very limited circle of friends, and most of my communication happens online. Not for the lack of trying from my friends, it's just easier that way, with Sasha's behavioural issues and my lack of energy.

But it's tough for the boys. We have stopped sending them to school last Thursday, and they both miss it. For Sasha it's something almost impossible to comprehend, why did his routine has changed so drastically. And Eddie is a bit subdued as well, so we do things together - read, watch movies, and I also stay next to him when he does his online homework.

I wasn't feeling well today, and spent most of the morning and afternoon in bed. My blood pressure was playing up, and I felt dizzy. I was in bed, when Eddie checked on me, and I told him I wasn't feeling great. Then I see his eyes are all filled with tears, poor soul.
I forced myself out of bed, and said we could watch Avengers: Age of Ultron.

Last Sunday he was busy cutting out pictures from an old Marvel comics book which I bought for 10p. He made a collage, and wrote the title, and I think he did a great job. Don't you agree?

Chez Maximka

It was an Inset day in Sasha's school on Monday, and my husband took him out to the café for what appears to be the very last time in a foreseeable future. I took Eddie to school, then accompanied my guys to the café.

Chez Maximka

It was his birthday the next day, and I sent him to school with a chocolate cake to celebrate with his class mates. He was in a very good mood all day. His teachers and class mates made birthday cards for him.

March the 17th is always full of celebration and sadness for us - both my brother and son have their birthdays on this day, but it's also the day when we buried my Dad 20 years ago. He never met his grandchildren.

This photo was taken by our friend all those years ago, when Sasha was a newborn, and we were back at home from the hospital after a big ordeal. I was in labour for 36 hours without a progress, and needed an emergency caesarean. When we got home, I thought the worst part was over.

I look at us, so young and so full of hope. In a way, it's good you cannot foresee your future.


Wednesday happened to be the last day when both boys attended school. It was also the last day I was able to buy sliced bread.
Three of us are more adaptable, and can eat homemade flatbreads and staff, but for Sasha it's a difficult situation. His diet is very limited as it is. You might remember me saying that in the past when we travelled to Italy, I used to take half a suitcase of familiar food with us, like Warburton's bread and tuna pate, as he wouldn't eat the Italian bread.

I know many people are in a worse situation, but the lack of basics in the shops (bread, eggs, milk, potatoes, carrots etc) is fuelling my anxiety. I probably sound like a broken record, but twice in the last week I felt almost fainting when I was looking at the empty shelves.

This cover of Private Eye did make me chuckle.

Chez Maximka

My Mum is always present in my garden, as through the year, there are flowers and blooms which she has planted. I wish she could see these beautiful hyacinths, I can only send her the photos.

Chez Maximka, spring garden

With everything going on I am a bit behind with my reviews. I try to schedule book reviews the day before the day when it should be out, but last Friday I was still finishing my review before lunchtime, and took only the photos for the post. Death in the Sound by Rhen Garland is a Victorian mystery, with a supernatural twist.

Chez Maximka, Victorian mysteries

Yesterday evening they were showing Avengers Assemble on BBC. Though we have it on a DVD, and watched not that long ago, we couldn't resist watching it for about 40 minutes.
You gotta love Loki. I know he's a baddie, but he's such an eye candy. Eddie is indignant, when I say how handsome Loki is.

Chez Maximka, Avengers Assemble

Hope you're all keeping safe!



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21 comments:

  1. My kids are struggling with boredom already but I think it is because we lead such busy lives. I have not watched the Marvel films so will add them to my watch list. Hope you are all keeping safe

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    1. Thank you, Kara! I haven't watched any Marvel films before my younger son started to show interest in them, but now I'm definitely a fan. Keep safe!

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  2. The situation with the bread is really annoying. I don't know if you know, but you can freeze bread. So, if you can get two loafs that Sasha likes, you can freeze one and keep that for him. Have you tried to make homemade bread which might be similar. For example, if he likes the one with seeds to add the same seeds in your bread. Send me an email if you need a bit of support for baking bread, I'm happy to help.

    The picture with Sasha as a baby is so nice. Sad at the same time, for what you've said. I can only send lots of virtual hugs. xx

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    1. Thank you, Anca, I know about freezing the bread, it's just the matter of getting some. I ventured out yesterday to Waitrose, and though the range of foods is better than last week, I still couldn't get the bread Sasha eats. The homebaked bread would have a different texture, don't think I can replicate Warburton's.

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  3. What a week for you! Eddie's collage is brilliant. It must be so confusing for the boys to be without school, especially for Sasha. I'm glad he had a good birthday before everything changed too dramatically. I really hope you can find the foods he needs soon. What a lovely photo of you with him as a newborn.

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    1. Thank you Sarah, I'm very glad Sasha had his little school party before the great change. He's not adjusting to the new way well, poor chap.

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  4. Aww I was wondering how Sasha is coping - it's all the little "unimportant" bits that make all the difference, especially for him. Plus it's hard enough for us to understand where we're going so how can you try to explain it all to him in a way that he'll understand? Look after yourself - rest up if it's what you need. Tell Eddie that you haven't got coronavirus and that you're just tired - poor little love. What about your husband? Is he still working or is he at home all the time with you now? Sending big hugs to you all xxx

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    1. Thank you, Cheryl, it is tough on Sasha, he is rather subdued, as he clearly doesn't understand what's going on. Fede works from home, thanks goodness, the Uni is closed.

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  5. I have found the social distancing easy. I have more friends online than I do in real life. All I am missing is seeing my dad and his partner. My girls are missing their friends though.
    I hope you are feeling better now.
    I love the Avengers collage. Great work!
    So lovely to see Sasha. I hope he's managing with the change in routine. It must be so hard. I hope you find the food you need soon.
    Ahh! I have recorded Avengers Assemble. I have it on DVD too but it's easier to watch it off the Sky planner. lol

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    1. Thank you, Kim, it is hard for Sasha, he's not taking it all in, and looks very forlorn.

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  6. Food shopping at the moment is so hard and more so when you need to try and find specific items. I hope you manage to find the things you need. Love the Marvel collage and those hyacinths are so pretty. #project366

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    1. Thank you, Louise, it looks like the first wave of panic-shopping has subsided locally. We managed o get foods that Sasha eats. Still no sanitiser but hope to get it one day too.

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  7. It is shocking how the shelves were empty, if people hadn't panicked there would have been enough for everyone. Hope you have managed to find the food you need.

    Sorry to hear you weren't feel too good.

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    1. Thank you, Fozia, I'm not sure I'm coping that well, even if I know I must for the kids' sake.

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  8. a hard day for you to celebrate when it holds good and bad memories. Happy belated birthday Sacha.
    Yes we feel the way about lack of soya and gluten free products that normal people were buying so they did not have to do without.
    Sorry you were not feeling well and poor Eddie worrying about you, it is very difficult when you have to be the parent and you have no strength left. Sending hugs

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  9. My eldest has been using house party to speak to his school friends. It works on wifi so thankfully doesn't use up all my data. I am teaching mine to make dough we made pizzas from scratch yesterday. But appreciate it must be hard when he likes a particular type. I hope you manage to get some soon.

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  10. I do like Eddie's collage. It must be tricky for Sasha with so many different things and the food being different is an added worry that shouldn't be necessary. Things seem a bit calmer food wise this week so hopefully you have what you need now.

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  11. True. At home, I sort of enjoy being in the comfort of my home and have alot to do so I haven't felt the impact of social distancing that much. But it is tough for the students and kids. That comic collage is amazing!! Happy birthdays and may your dad rest in peace. Labour for that long sounds awful! Lovely picture of you, your hubby and Sasha. The flowers look lovely. That's a funny toilet paper joke, although we haven't had issues of shortages of food here. I love Avengers!

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  12. My kids are doing ok, but have only been home this week. They are missing their football though. Hope you are staying safe. Hugs xx

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  13. Weels later and some things are still not in the shops. I am staying home but Chris goes out shopping once a week: it is so frustrating not being able to go myself! #project366

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  14. I've noticed my contact with people hasn't really been affected either, i just find I'm speaking with more people on the phone and online. Sorry to hear about the food situation for Sasha, I hope you are able to find things now the panic buying has slowed down. Love the free toilet paper joke. Hope everyone is well

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